Andrew turns THREE

{December 19, 2011}

Is it really true another year has flown by???

Andrew is now THREE!

I just love my little guy; my first boy! He has made me such a better person and is always so caring and considerate of others. He makes me proud! I love watching his little personality grow and sprout into the person he is becoming and I hope every day that I am doing my very best to teach him and to do things right to help mold him into a good man one day. Right now, he seems like a fine young boy so I'm hoping I'm doing okay through my mistakes along the way. Parenting is a lot of trial and error I feel. There's so much that goes into being a good parent - but above all, I know that a lot of LOVE will do them a LOT of good!!! :)

He loves: Thomas the Train, cars and trains, Legos, playing outside, cartoons, books, coloring, brushing his teeth, learning to go potty like a big boy, flashlights, singing, dancing, helping to cook/bake, string cheese, bath time, chicken nuggets, bouncy balls, reading his Book of Mormon, his favorite blanket and stuffed doggy, dinosaurs, playing games on my phone, someone laying by him before bed.

So two days before his actual birthday, we threw him a friends party. 

A bunch of his friends came over and had pizza and cupcakes and played at the house.

And then, two days later, as tradition so far would have it, Andrew woke up on his birthday to SNOW!!! :)

Which he seemed pretty happy about!

He got to wear a new shirt for his special day...

Nothing better than Thomas the Train himself!

And got some birthday HUGS!!!

He didn't seem to happy with that, but, oh well! :)

Everyone else loved giving him some birthday loves!

After Landon's 9 month well baby check in the morning, I stopped off and picked up some Cinnabon treats! YUM!

(Until we were done...then it was "Ughhhhhh!")

For dinner, at the birthday boy's request, we had pancakes!

Time for the birthday festivities to BEGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He was so excited to open his presents...

And blow out his birthday candle. 

We told him to make a wish -

but he blew it out before we even finished our sentence!

(Maybe he already HAS all that a cute little 3 year old boy could ever dream of!) :)

Kisses from Dad & Mom!

This is his first year opening up all his gifts on his own! I didn't put a whole lot of tape on his gifts to help him out a little! Haha.

(Yes, I'm a little sad seeing how big he's getting and how fast he's growing up! 

"Mama says, "SLOW DOWN!!")

He was SO excited to open each one and find out what was behind the wrapping paper. 

So cute!

I just love his smile! He makes me one happy mama and I really couldn't imagine my life without my little buddy! Seriously not a day goes by that I'm not grateful for his goofiness, funny jokes and sweet playful self - for the gift of having him in our family! 

Love you, baby of mine! Thank you for being you and bringing so much love and happiness to our home! 

We love you! xoxo

Andrew + Potty Training

Here we are....one week to the day since we started good ol potty training with Andrew. Even with an occasional accident here or there, he's doing awesome!! I've been finding that more often than not, he's dry when he wakes up from his naps which is a good indication that he is getting old enough to wait until he wakes up to go potty. (Not night time yet, just naps.) And boy has he been easy to please! If he goes, all he wants is a gummy bear or to play a game on my iPhone. Sounds good to me! :)

Besides him showing some obvious signs of starting to be potty trained, I thought this time was as good as any - especially with being stuck at home without a vehicle for a month now. Every hour, we walk down to the bathroom so he can try and he usually goes. If he doesn't, I have him take off his pull-up and once he goes again, he can put it back on. Kinda scary having him run around without anything on from the waist down but whatever works! And because he's the big boy that he is, he insists that he flushes the toilet after I empty out his little botty chair bowl into it. He most definitely loves being able to wash his hands all by himself. (With supervision of course!) :) As of right now, he's been able to go #2 in the toilet a few times also. Slowly but surely, we're getting there. By golly, sooner or later, I will only have ONE child left in diapers!! Woo hoo! :)

Today, after we saw the doctor for his 3 year well child visit, I took him across the hall to the restroom, held him on the big toilet and he peed! I was so happy for him and I just LOVE to see his adorable smile when he hears that his Mama is so proud of him! He's just the cutest thing ever! This has been a huge step for him (and us!) and I think he's doing an amazing job for only being a week into the process. More proof that my once "baby" is now getting to be a BIG boy! My how fast they grow up!

{Sporting his new pull-ups}

Santa

12*17*2011

Our first Christmas in Frankfurt and who do we find?? Santa Clause!! :) The kids were so happy that he took some time out of his busy schedule to come see them. It was the morning of Andrew's birthday party. And while I don't make it a habit to do Christmas things on his special day, they had fun and couldn't bear the thought that he was all the way in Germany and missed him! 

So Andrew talked to Santa about what he wished for. I asked him afterwards what he told Santa he wanted for Christmas and he told me it was a secret between just him and Santa! Ha! Guess we'll have to see if "Santa" can guess! ;) I'm sure legos and cars are at the top of his list!

 

After sitting with Santa and getting a picture with him, they hopped down and each got a candycane and a yo-yo or a toy equivalent to one. They were feeling super special!

 This also happened to be Landon's first appearance with Santa. I didn't really get a formal one with just him like I have with the others in previous years but they hit it off just fine. In all honestly, at nine months old, I don't even think he noticed! Sitting on Aubrey's lap helped I'm sure. They became fast friends. Didn't even shed a tear! :)

Between a church Christmas party, Santa visiting, music going, baking cookies and hanging out in the freezing temps...we are getting into the holiday spirit around here.

 And this year, we'll be having my brother and his family here from England to enjoy the Christmas festivities with us. For sure a Christmas to remember! 

Christmas Time is Here!

{Christmas Cards 2011}

I wish my brain wasn't always mush!

I find that my creative energy comes mid day - when I'm still running around getting things done at the homefront and keeping a baby clean, fed and entertained while big brother snoozes for his nap. Oh how I can't wait until they are both on the same nap schedule! :)

Until then, it's go, go, go!!!

(And I feel like a walking zombie!)

Don't get me wrong - I LOVE being busy caring for my children. They are most definitely busy bodies and most days they make me want to pull my hair out but they are the love of my life and I am so grateful for them and all their cuteness! I just feel the need to write things down to preserve memories and I honestly don't have as much time to do it as I used to. But I will find a way! Sleep just seems to be more necessary in this time of my life. Especially with a husband who's about to start his Master's Degree!

On a happy note...it's starting to feel and look like Christmas here. More so if it will snow in the next couple of days like it's predicting it will. I can't wait! Winter here started a few weeks back with darkness starting around 4pm. Not one of my most favorite traits of winter, that's for sure! I miss the sunlight!! And we had heavy fog for days. Now it's just cold, windy and rainy. Days aren't any warmer than the 30's and 40's. I left my kids in the care of a friend for a bit today to run through the hurricane like weather, which was pushing it's way towards us from France, to get some packages mailed off to family and friends in the States. And oh how I'm missing them all! I am getting a bit homesick again. Skype, how I love you so! It truly has been a great thing for us to see and talk to people from afar!

I am so relieved that all the Christmas cards have been written and presents have been shipped. I was losing a lot of sleep (and so was John as he and I stayed up until 1am last night) trying to get so much done in the past few weeks in between tending to a sick Jocelyn, an on-the-go Landon, a potty training Andrew and a homework busy bee Aubrey. NOW I feel I can enjoy the holidays. Thankfully the kids stuff has been bought and made for a while now and all is done except wrapping. I leave that for last minute. Got to keep up with tradition on most things! ;) Who knows...I might surprise myself and get it done earlier but I'm not banking on it.

We have so many wonderful and busy things to look forward in the next 9 days - by the time Christmas arrives! Especially with my brother and his family coming out for a week to spend Christmas with us. The tree is up, Christmas break starts NOW and 4 more days until they arrive! Woo hoo!

And off I go to catch this little guy! Heaven help me...Landon learned to do this amazing trick as well as pull himself to stand along furniture just a few days ago. He's NINE months! We're smelling TROUBLE now! None of our other kids did it this early. I'm sure he's got the notion to stay up to speed with his brother and sisters. Boy do we have our hands busy! Gates are going up pronto!

Meaning of Christmas

{The beautiful tree decorated in the church foyer smelledheavenly! I miss having a real tree for this reason alone!}



I felt true happiness today while being with my family at church! Mind you, I do naturally feel happy but today I felt even more so! Because our car is still in the shop, three of us rode to church with one friend and the other three rode with another friend. So when Jocelyn, Andrew and I arrived, John was sitting in the chapel with Landon and Aubrey was up front awaiting her first Sacrament talk. As we sang some Christmas hymns, it came to my attention that I had all that's near and dear to me right then at that very moment. My husband was by my side, my kids were snuggled up next to us coloring quietly and Aubrey was giving the sweetest talk on what Christmas means to her. I had it all right there in that very room: my family! And I felt even more humbled when I looked over to see John singing Christmas carols with me and the congregation. He doesn't like to openly sing. Or rather, he doesn't think he sounds that good. But he does and nothing sounded sweeter! I honestly didn't want that moment to end. Throughout the week, I have many moments of love with my children and husband but for some reason, I just really wanted to embrase this particular moment just a little bit more than I normally would have. I love the feeling of peace. That things were the way they should be: our family together!

{My boys!}

Thanksgiving and Christmas time happen to be my most favorite holidays to celebrate and be a part of. Not for the food or the gifts. But for the chance to think and reflect a bit more than I usually do throughout the other parts of the year. I'm reminded of all that we have and hold dear. That it's about remembering all that's important. That we shouldn't take life and people for granted. That we have much to be grateful for! And most importantly, the birth of Jesus Christ and all that He does and has done for us!

I thought it would be nice for those that couldn't be here to listen to Aubrey's talk to at least be able to read it. I also wanted to have it written down for keepsakes. And, well, because she's my first child and I'm so very proud of her! :) She did awesome and received lots of wonderful comments afterwards about how well she did.

The Importance of Christmas in my Life

by: Aubrey Shields

Good morning, Brothers and Sisters. A few weeks ago, I was asked to give a talk about the importance of Christmas in my life, and my first reaction was, "Wow! How lucky can I get to be assigned a talk the first day in Young Womens!" This is my first time giving a talk in Sacrament, and I am really excited about it, so hopefully it goes well.

About a week ago, my little sister comes up to me with a smile on her face and says, "I'm so excited for Christmas!" I ask her why and she says, "Presents!" as if it were obvious. I explained to her that Christmas isn't all about getting, it's about giving and helping others, so they can have a good Christmas too and to know that people care for them. When I thought she was on the verge of understanding, her eyes widened and said, "We don't get presents?!!" I said, "we do, but that's not what Christmas is all about." My little sister said back, "Oh! (I could tell she was relieved!)...I thought we wouldn't get presents." I tried telling her it wasn't all about getting things and it was about giving and the birth of Jesus Christ.

As I started to think about it, I thought of what would happen if there was no Christmas. A lot of things popped into my head. Christmas is the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. He atoned for our sins, and died for us on the cross. He ensured that we would be resurrected one day and that we would live again. After we talked, we made some cards for a few of our family members and I finally think the message settled in with my sister. During that time, I think I learned a little something as well. It reminded me that having presents is not what makes Christmas. We would still be very happy during Christmas without a little "Ho Ho Ho" from Santa Clause and presents under the Christmas tree. Sure, those things are fun, but being together as a family, coming together and sharing special times with one another is what makes almost everyone happy during Christmas.

Yesterday, during the ward Christmas party, I had so much fun with my family and I'm sure everyone else had fun as well. I liked the fact that everyone came together to prepare food, setup, clean...so everone would have an enjoyable time. Christmas is a time of year to celebrate and be happy with our family and friends. Things like the Christmas party are one of the ways we can feel the Spirit.

There is a lot to be thankful for the birth of Jesus Christ, and if He was never here, we would not be resurrected or any of these things. Christmas is a time to celebrate these gifts, and be with your loved ones. My Aunt, Uncle and baby Cousin are coming for Christmas so we can be together as a family and have a great time.

I would like to share my testimony with you that I know this church is true, and that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ are watching over us and they're there for us. I love my family and I know they love me as well. I am thankful for Christmas and the Spirit and I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

To The One I Love...

"Happy Birthday, honey! ;)"

Another year of happy and sad moments (baby born/ moving away from friends)...but I seriously couldn't have done it without my husband by my side! He's amazing and I count myself lucky to be his each and every single day!!! I feel truly blessed!

Some things that I love about him:

1.) He's an amazing father to our four sweet children! I love seeing him read and play and interact with them and how much they love him in return!

2.) He is supportive in all that I do. Especially if he knows it will help me be a better person, he's my personal cheerleader.

3.) Awesome cook!! His breakfast burritos are to die for - among some other favorite dishes! If (and when) he offers to cook, I usually don't turn it down! :) One of our goals is to take cooking lessons together.

4.) He puts up with me reading with the light on at night from time to time. It doesn't appear to bother his sleep any - but if it does, he never complains!

5.) Part of him being happy is making sure that his wife and children are taken care of and are happy too! He's always making sure that I'm okay and he's there for me at the drop of a hat if I need him. However big or small it may be. He knows me and loves me and I couldn't have asked for a truer or better best friend if I tried.

And the list really does goes on and on...:)

xoxo

Happy 31st Birthday John!

I love you sooooooooo much!!

And here's to another year of great memories!!!